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Is he controlling me?

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Is he controlling me?


Hey mums! This is probably a silly post but I'm after some insight in to an issue myself and my husband are having.

When we wake up in the mornings, he tells me that I'm not allowed to talk to him, and anytime I try he tells me to shh or shut up. If I continue to talk he either tells me to go in another room or he will go back to bed.

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Once up, he decides what's on tv, and he sits in my chair (we each have a recliner and mine is under the air con) and says I'm not allowed to sit there or have the air conditioner on.

So for 3/4 hours in the mornings, I'm unsure what to do with myself, because he doesn't want me talking, or sitting in the same room as him, and doesn't want me doing anything with our son, as he says I'm "too much for them both in the morning.

I make meals for our son, but if I have any input, or even ask "how's he going with his breakfast? He tells me that I'm not allowed to parent when he is parenting so I need to either shut up or go to another room.

I guess the point of this post is, I want to know if I am being unreasonable in the mornings? I just like to be with my son, play, chat a little to him, and maybe say the odd thing here and there to my husband.

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I try to raise the issue I have, but he just tells me that I'm trying to cause a fight and it never gets discussed.

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