I'm not sure what to do?



Hi there,

I'm due to have a medical termination next week and honestly I have this overwhelming feeling that I don't want to but it'll be our third and my husband is convinced we cannot afford it. He earns an okay wage, and I actually don't believe him...and when I asked to see his numbers he brushed it off and rattled off numbers and sort of bamboozled me...then I asked again and he showed me a list but it actually looked like we'd be okay. He just said that we wouldn't save enough to buy a house in the area that he wants to live it. Honestly I'd rather have this baby and rent longer/ buy in a different area....I'm not sure what to do have the baby regardless, and just hope he gets on board or risk our marriage and cause him to potentially blame me for him not getting the life he wants. Which for the record would be a lovely life. He 100% does not want this baby and is not willing to sacrifice anything to have the baby. He said to me that if I choose to have the baby he'll support me but it's not what he wants.

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